Every parent would want for her baby boy will grow into a healthy, intelligent, creative, independent, and devoted.
Hope to make them the best, for the good of the children themselves. To achieve this goal, parents need to understand the world better kids.
Because, their world is different from the adult world. Children have a unique personality. Sometimes we feel their behavior funny, but that's their world. As parents need to understand the creativity of children and direct him to things that are positive.
Here are tips to understand the child's world we need to know, namely:
1. Imitative
Whether we realize it or not, what we say, we do, it will emulate the children. So we as parents have to provide concrete examples of good or exemplary in children.
Children are a mirror of their parents. But not only from parents only, children will mimic the surrounding environment or other media such as television. Parents should be selective in this regard.
2. Child's world is a world of play
Thus, almost all of its activities is playing. Playing while learning (learning by playing), mengeksprolasi objects around them is a fun activity.
Navigate to the games that stimulate the brain and physical growth. Notice in choosing toys for children or child choose the game.
3. Still developing
The children are still developing both physically and phikis. By going through several stages, will form the personality of the child.
4. Children are still children
They were immature, so do not be compared with adults. Both of their ways of thinking, especially from the physical. Let them enjoy the world's children.
5. Creative
In addition to growing and developing, children are a creative person, like asking, high curiosity, like imagining. When children ask about something, answer the age-appropriate children. Convoluted explanation would be difficult to receive the child.
Convey to children's language, language that is easy to understand, according to their ability to receive new information.
You do not need to be bored with that question repeatedly. Instead, you are supposed to understand the world better kids. Create a home as a place for fishing creativity
6. When there are problems, do not rush to blame the child.
Better introspection you and your spouse first. Choose the right words if you want to criticize the child. Note also your tone
7. Expand to read a book or other reading is beneficial.
To better understand the world of children, or can also view programs related to parenting.
8. Know your child's character.
Every child is unique. You do not have comparisons with the other. All you need to do is help identify the potential and direct. There is no harm in giving rewards to children, such as praise, rewards, and so forth.
9. To better understand the world of children.
Open yourself with friends who have more experience than sharing a story or discussion. If necessary, you can go consult a psychologist. There is no shame. The psychologist is not a place for children with problems alone
10. Involve your child when you and your partner will make the rules at home.
Like, get children to introduce their friends to you, as an elder. However, do not force your wishes. And, you must be consistent with the results of agreement between parent and child.
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