Educating Children with Conducive Atmosphere

Knowingly or not, parents are often less attention to stages of child's age when the train or teach something to children. Parents often lack patience in guiding and directing the child, so expect all of his efforts can be absorbed and understood instantly by children.

Parents need to realize that educate or teach the child about something needs to be adapted to the stage of the child's age. Parents can teach children under five for example on how to write numbers and letters. However, gradual manner. Parents do not enforce child seupaya can write numbers and letters rapidly beyond the age of the child's habits (each child has its limitations and advantages, so it should be adjusted). Moreover, if a child being scolded for not easily understood or done in accordance with parental expectations. That way other than to hurt the child also can erode confidence in children, because children feel themselves do not have the ability.

Another example which may often be done by some parents when teaching children to read. Parents expect their children a new elementary school directly can easily be taught to read like a junior high school children who had fluent reading. Muhammad Husain (2007:210) states that the thing to do in educating parents and children form the character is trying to create a conducive atmosphere that can make children feel happy, so the child can receive a good education process, namely by making them feel comfortable on every task and job given to him.