Currently in some mass media, began to frequently encountered cases of child abduction and missing children, especially children who were aged 10 years and under. No wonder, because under the age of 10 years, children are still innocent and trusting to a stranger, who behave well, or claimed to know his parents. Forbid children to avoid strangers, may not be an effective way to teach self-reliance in children. However, without supervision, can also be fatal consequences.
Therefore, here are some tips suggested by Clint Van Zandt, a former member of the FBI's Behavioral Science Unit:
1. Before leaving home or school, input notes into your pocket every child that include child's name and phone number caregiver or person in charge that can be immediately contacted. As far as possible, do not include the address of the house because you do not want a stranger telling the child that he must mengantarkanny home.
2. Before entering public places, make sure all familiar with the plan and where they should go if they separate. Families should always set a meeting place that has been agreed previously, the fountain area in the spacious outdoor mall or drugstore in the mall. Make sure your child understands that he was not allowed to leave the place when he last saw you, except go to the meeting place agreed upon earlier. He should tell the security guard, store manager, or mothers who carry a child that she lost. He was not allowed to sit alone and look like being lost because of attitudes like that can attract the attention of kidnappers.
3. If the child is equipped mobile phone, the phone can facilitate the search with melaca pings emitted by mobile phones from the nearest cell phone tower, so that very well if it is possible to equip children with the phone (note: of course with the supervision of usage charges is also by parent).
4. When to go to crowded places like amusement parks, use a camera in your phone (if any camera) to photograph all children in your group. So, there are photographs showing the physique and the clothes worn every child, an image that can be used by all seekers and can even be downloaded, copied, and distributed if necessary.
5. Wear brightly colored clothing in children, especially the yellow and green, the color of strong to help them search seandaina integral. Because it is difficult for children to see adults who face high and covering their field of view, we suggest you bring a large handkerchief or scarf that you can attach to your knees if your child is missing. These objects can be seen the child from the field of view.
6. If you are an integral member of the group, immediately notify the security guard. Most malls, amusement parks, and other public parks have emergency procedures that they could implement, for example calling the child through loudspeakers and close all the way out, to make sure your child does not run out of the area alone or taken forcibly by the kidnappers. Security guard will immediately notify all employees of the store or place that no child is lost and will start watching the video of all security cameras. When looking for themselves, stand on a stool for you to be higher than the crowd in that place, and narrow your search by looking at the color of the clothes worn your child.
7. Lastly, if the child is found, quickly praise him and do not get yelled at. You must show him that you miss her and that next time she should always be near you. If you scold him, you just add guilt to the child who had just had the experience frightening.
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