Rabu, 05 Januari 2011

The importance of Togetherness Mother And Child


Who does not love, she was not loved. If parents fail to express affection to their children, they will not be able to love parents .. (Prophet Muhammad )

Sometimes, we as parents do not realize that the unity between mother and child are the principles and should not be ignored. When a mother has been busy building their careers, sometimes neglecting their main duty to educate their children.

Sometimes we do not realize, suddenly, our children are grown. Then we start wishing if only once can spend more time with the kids.

Maybe we'll regret it, if our success in a career should be paid handsomely by eliminating a lot of time together mother and child.

Emotional relationship that exists between mother and child could have been reduced. Not only that, sometimes the lack of unity is yet to be paid handsomely by terjerumusnya child to negative things, such as drugs or other criminal acts.

How much pain we feel as a mother. Or, even when the child's success and achievement, we are not entirely happy because they do not feel part in this.

Here are some things to bring us the importance of togetherness between mother and child.

1. Cry

Crying is one way used by infants to communicate with others. Babies will cry when hungry, thirsty, bladder and bowel movements or feel sick.

Very often babies cry because they want to close with his mother, when her mother was approached, he was silent. This is the way the baby to feel comfortable with her mother. What a crying is a potent drug for the closer relationship of mother and child.

2. Breastfeeding baby directly

However busy a mother, she should not forget and neglect to breastfeed her child directly, not through the bottle. From the health side, many features are directly compared with feeding bottles.

Psychologically, breastfeeding led directly to the link between mother and child. Children will feel comfortable and happy when he could see the face of his mother and suckle from her body, especially in the early months.

3. Holding child

This will create a special bond between mother and child inwardly. Because the child will feel closer to his parents' bodies. In contrast, if the child is placed in the cart, though he could still see the face of her parents.

4. Playing with kids

Research shows that children can hear and see from day one. Babies will feel happy to see people's faces, let alone being voiced something beautiful.

That is why we know, kids can smell the aroma of his mother when he was around. So play with your child. Position yourself as a child, to understand the beauty of togetherness of mother and child that is in progress.

Life is choices. However, whether by choice, you have to sacrifice something precious, let alone that it is the mother and child time together? You would better know the answer ...

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