Psychological Effects on Children who often left her parents, and the solution

Examples of this case is plural happen in our lives, so we agreed to raise the question from a loyal visitor InfoAnak.com into an article to be helpful for other readers.
Here are excerpts from a question from a mother:

    My neighbor had a son 3 years old, his father maerantau to Jakarta. Her mother was working in a factory not far from home. Every day, the child abandoned by his parents. Automatically receive less attention. About whether the negative effects will be experienced both child psychology and development of the child's intelligence?
Answer:
You people who care and attention at all to the children, really very nice to have neighbors who care about each other.
With very limited information, I will answer your questions.Good and bad depending on how the child's parents care for and educate children. At present, because it is the demands of many working mothers, even until they split the city just to meet family living, as experienced by your neighbors. But the situation that occurred was not a bad end, but how we can respond positively from all the circumstances. Well, for working mothers, not necessarily a bad berkibat to children, but how the parents care for and educate anaknyalah that will determine the growth and development of children. In connection with the case of your neighbor, even though different city fathers and mothers to work, but if the relationship can co-exist within the family, especially mothers can play doubles for children, the ability of the child can still develop optimally in accordance with the stages of development.
Here are some tips that can be done mother:

    When mothers work, who can substitute for the mother, because the role of substitute mother figure also determine keoptimalan of child development. For mothers need to work together with caregivers in order to continue to monitor the growth and development. My mother had to actively seek out all information about child growth and development.
    Mothers should take the time to meet the lost time with the child. Thus, emotional closeness is still awake and the mother can continue to provide stimulus to the growth and development of children so that children can develop optimally.
    Children who grow up with healthy so too will its ability to develop well, in other words the child is physically fit then the intelligence will also be developed in accordance with its potential.
    Unless there are special cases in children, such as autism, hyperactivity, etc. then this required special handling.
For your kind, you can help your neighbor by giving support to always pay attention to the growth and development. Lots of information about child growth and development and how we stimulate the growth and development so that children can develop optimally. To his son, if you have any early childhood environment (Early Childhood Education), so it is better if the child is invited to participate, because there he will learn to socialize and develop their skills so as to increase the intelligence of children

Finding Missing Children in crowd

Currently in some mass media, began to frequently encountered cases of child abduction and missing children, especially children who were aged 10 years and under. No wonder, because under the age of 10 years, children are still innocent and trusting to a stranger, who behave well, or claimed to know his parents. Forbid children to avoid strangers, may not be an effective way to teach self-reliance in children. However, without supervision, can also be fatal consequences.

Therefore, here are some tips suggested by Clint Van Zandt, a former member of the FBI's Behavioral Science Unit:

1. Before leaving home or school, input notes into your pocket every child that include child's name and phone number caregiver or person in charge that can be immediately contacted. As far as possible, do not include the address of the house because you do not want a stranger telling the child that he must mengantarkanny home.

2. Before entering public places, make sure all familiar with the plan and where they should go if they separate. Families should always set a meeting place that has been agreed previously, the fountain area in the spacious outdoor mall or drugstore in the mall. Make sure your child understands that he was not allowed to leave the place when he last saw you, except go to the meeting place agreed upon earlier. He should tell the security guard, store manager, or mothers who carry a child that she lost. He was not allowed to sit alone and look like being lost because of attitudes like that can attract the attention of kidnappers.

3. If the child is equipped mobile phone, the phone can facilitate the search with melaca pings emitted by mobile phones from the nearest cell phone tower, so that very well if it is possible to equip children with the phone (note: of course with the supervision of usage charges is also by parent).

4. When to go to crowded places like amusement parks, use a camera in your phone (if any camera) to photograph all children in your group. So, there are photographs showing the physique and the clothes worn every child, an image that can be used by all seekers and can even be downloaded, copied, and distributed if necessary.

5. Wear brightly colored clothing in children, especially the yellow and green, the color of strong to help them search seandaina integral. Because it is difficult for children to see adults who face high and covering their field of view, we suggest you bring a large handkerchief or scarf that you can attach to your knees if your child is missing. These objects can be seen the child from the field of view.

6. If you are an integral member of the group, immediately notify the security guard. Most malls, amusement parks, and other public parks have emergency procedures that they could implement, for example calling the child through loudspeakers and close all the way out, to make sure your child does not run out of the area alone or taken forcibly by the kidnappers. Security guard will immediately notify all employees of the store or place that no child is lost and will start watching the video of all security cameras. When looking for themselves, stand on a stool for you to be higher than the crowd in that place, and narrow your search by looking at the color of the clothes worn your child.

7. Lastly, if the child is found, quickly praise him and do not get yelled at. You must show him that you miss her and that next time she should always be near you. If you scold him, you just add guilt to the child who had just had the experience frightening.

Dental Care for babies aged 0-24 months

Generally, dental diseases and disorders in children is one of the disturbances in then process of growth and development. Since baby teeth begin to grow, parents must take responsibility to clean their baby teeth. Although children's teeth are just baby teeth whose existence is only temporary, but the health of milk teeth affect the dental health of children in the future. Therefore, as parents need to know how to care for your child's teeth as a baby in the right way, for oral health of children is resolved.

How to care for the baby's mouth at the age of 0-6 months:

1. Clean your baby's gums with a damp cloth, at least twice a day

2. Do not allow your baby to sleep while drinking milk with a bottle of milk.

3. Finished breastfeeding, remember to clean the baby's mouth with a damp cloth

4. Do not add a sweet taste in the bottle of milk with honey or something sweet.

How to care for the baby's mouth and teeth at the age of 7-12 months:

1. Ask your pediatrician or your dentist if your baby is getting enough fluoride

2. Remember to clean your baby's mouth with a damp cloth (not wet at all), after feeding.

3. Do not let the baby sleep with a bottle of milk (while drinking milk from a bottle) except water.

4. Give the baby water if you want to drink milk beyond schedule

5. When teeth begin to grow, start clean with a damp cloth. Clean every surface of the tooth and gum line between teeth with him carefully, because the food was often left on the surface.

6. When baby teeth begin to grow, start using a small toothbrush with soft surface and the nylon material.

7. Do not use toothpaste and remember to always wet the toothbrush with water.

8. Check with your child's teeth to the dentist, after 6 months from the first tooth erupts, or when age children a year.

How to care for the baby's mouth and teeth at the age of 13-24 months:

1. Begin introducing fluoride toothpaste

2. Do not let the child sleep with a bottle of milk (while drinking milk from a bottle), except water.

3. Use a pea-sized toothpaste green.

4. Brush teeth at least twice a day (after breakfast and before bed at night)

5. Use a soft toothbrush from nylon material.

6. Replace toothbrushes every three months or when the brush hairs are damaged.

7. Be a role model by practicing good oral health habits maintain and perform routine checks to the dentist every 6 months.

8. Familiarize children to eat healthy snacks such as fresh fruit and fresh vegetables.

9. Avoid snacks that contain sugar.

Children - Toddlers - Infants

Mass Media, Technology, and Mental Development of Children

These last days, we almost can not be separated from the frenetic news porn video scandal similar artists who are already scattered freely on the internet. Apart from any criticism or news that flashed into the artists involved, we do need is concerned that the spread of recording, already accessible to the various groups, including children. Even long before the excitement of this video appears, we must remember also the spread of sex videotape of former officials, students, artists dressed, and many more.

All are activities that tend to be taboo in the culture of our society, especially for children. And no doubt, cases involving these famous artists to the attention of public and government that is big enough because they are public figures, so make more circles that tend to want to know, what is being reported by the mass media.

We have to admit, in this modern-paced era, the spread of any information, whether positive or negative, relatively difficult to avoid, as well as information that should be reserved for adults who are ready and unseen receive such information. Moreover, growth of the Internet and devices are getting cheaper and increasingly we need for daily activities, allowing easier access.

Certainly will not be effective if we as parents, we just ban children and scold when we experience it is to consume adult classified information, either through the internet, mobile phones, televisions or other technological tools, because it will bring a great curiosity in children , and the edges, will be easily tempted to find out in real practice, as most reported so far in various mass media.

Therefore, the key to protect our baby from the negative impact of technological advances, while we are able to maximize the positive aspects of the technology, is COMMUNICATION. Like any relationship whatever it is, including the relationship between husband and wife, COMMUNICATION is the most effective means to provide feedback to each other, understand each other, providing mutual understanding, and learning from each other in achieving a win-win solution in every problem whatsoever.

Angry, forced, forbid, punish, or other emotional action, tends to increase feelings of distress and the desire to rebel in children, which ultimately, will be difficult for parents in the planting of appropriate value.

Communication between parent-child areas are good (that is, children feel comfortable every time communicating with their parents, rather than depressed or afraid), would be far more effective way to instill values than external factors. Only when the child does not feel comfortable when he was at home, that's when outside factors (friends, media, etc.) have a significant influence.

So, how effective air-COMMUNICATION easy for children to understand the meaning intended parents?

Here, FITNESS required core information to be communicated between parent and child mental development, which generally follow the development of his age.

Undeniably, the intellectual development to the faster and earlier thanks to the influence of nutrition, environment and upbringing. In contrast, mental development need continuous process of synergy between parent-child-environment until the child begins to be able to take responsibility for independently in adulthood.

Therefore, we present some of these tips you can try the parents in instilling normative values (especially related to sex behavior):

1. Utilizing parable / metaphor and OFFICIAL LOVE

This is especially when a child under the age of at least 7 years (approximately grade 2), asked where he was born.

    Better parents avoid answers that hard to accept common sense because someday in the future, children will be hard to believe the parents if it is in fact not like that delivered a parent.
    Better parents provide answers to love, such as Cinderella and fairy tale love story of love that is, the child was born. So was born the concept of "Love", became the norm in the information recorded on the child.
    Above the age of 7 th - the beginning of puberty behind, parents can add the concept of "Love" is the concept of "Official", in the eyes of religion and law, such as children born from Love which has been officially united by religion and law in the form of marriage legitimate.
    So when a child has entered puberty period behind (teenagers and above), the values of "Love" and "Official" has been recorded in the child's personality, so that subsequently, the duty of parents is lighter relative to guide the child to adapt to changes in organ function has begun to mature. Just at that moment, a new child can learn about the beginning of the "Biological Process" formation of the birth of children with the values of "Love" and "official" embedded.

2. Showing happiness that emanated from the wedding photographs of parents

3. Showing happiness that emanated from the child's birth documents, the results of Love's love in the form of official marriage.

4. Menekankankan and always repeat the word "BELIEVE same Mom and Dad's brother (or the child's nickname), and that brother will always use the trust's father and mother very well"

5. Explain that sex behavior as shown by artists and others as reported in various media and the internet, it is not "Love" because it is not accounted for "Official" in the presence of religion and law. Therefore, such behavior, will not produce happiness for themselves.

    This applies, even when the child is a teenager and started dating relationship, so that the value / keyword "Love", "Official", and "Parents Believe" that has been embedded in the principle of life of children, child's mental condition would have relatively ready to protect yourself from the temptation to have sexual relations before their time, although with a boyfriend themselves.

6. Last but not least, is the MODELING of parents. Without "MODELING" is consistent with the fact that views of children, then steps 1 through 5 will be less effective, or more precisely, in vain.

As a proverb says, "Little by little, long into the hills." Similarly, with mental development in the future young generation, especially our children.

We can not fix the past, we can not shut themselves from the development era, we also can not avoid a very rapid technological progress, but we can learn from mistakes and correct them for the sake of a better future. And, it all depends on ourselves each time in

Anti-Candida Sack Lunch For Child

This article discusses an anti-candida lunch for children. My friend 12-year-old daughter has really bad candida. She also has severe rheumatoid arthritis, joint, bone, lung problems / I'm not sure if they are related to Candida. Her typical lunch at school or Bologna ham sandwich on white bread, chips, pop and cookies and candy.
My friend wants her healthy lunches to school. She wonders whether there is any idea of anti-candida diet. She also wants recipes for all their meals and snacks to know because she had chronic yeast for 4 years.
In my opinion, if you have the same situation as her, you can use yogurt, fresh fruit to try, such as carrots sticks, celery sticks, green peppers, cucumbers and the like. If they can eat cheese alternatives like tofu, try them. If not, try cheese and crackers.
Most people usually make a chicken salad, moistened with a good quality mayonnaise (there are a lot of recipes on some websites candida). They all put fruit, peppers, even habanera peppers (though it may be difficult for a child to eat). They usually make it as a sandwich, using spinach instead of lettuce.
Recipes for good-quality mayonnaise, go to paleofood.com, and look at their recipes page under the heading dressings. They have a lot of mayonnaise recipes to choose from, so you have some options. Just do not add vinegar!
Maybe you want to try this recipe. Blend 1 egg with 1 tablespoon lemon juice or vinegar 1 Tbsp. Sprinkle in 1 cup of oil while blender is on. You can really spice it up by adding a clove of garlic or some herbs.